Questionnaire

First write down the things you don’t like about yourself and your life, the problems you have, the things you would like to improve about yourself and your life circumstances. Then answer the questions.
The purpose of this questionnaire is to find all issues that can be improved with regard to personality, views of life, health, the course of life and talents. When the situation prior to the start of the treatment is documented, results can be more easily assessed. Without the questionnaire, there will be a number of changes as a result of the treatment that you will notice, but one doesn’t see everything, one doesn’t always notice all the changes. The questionnaire helps to see as many changes as possible. The questionnaire produces some information about yourself and your life, but this information is far from complete because most people don’t perceive all aspects of their own personality and life. Some people only perceive a very limited part of themselves. However, when a pattern has been sufficiently peeled off, you’ll suddenly be aware of aspects of your behaviour or life, that are dictated by this pattern, that you weren’t aware of before. This behaviour or situation will not be solved as a result, but this is a first change. Since one doesn’t perceive all aspects of one’s behaviour or life oneself, it is recommended that, in addition to this questionnaire, you keep a journal in which you write down your feelings, your thoughts, the things you say, the things you do or don’t do, the things that happen, your reactions, the reactions of others to you, the way your life fits together, the way you handle things, the things you’re not good at, … As a result, a completer image of you will be set down on paper.
Some questions look rather similar. When you feel that you have already given the answer to a question in a previous question, then you can skip this question. However, a question that is put in a somewhat different way, can induce a different answer and therefore provide additional information.
When answering a question, just write down everything that comes to mind at the time, even if this answer doesn’t entirely address that specific question. The point is to put in writing everything that’s going on. When answers might still come up at any given moment after filling out the questionnaire, then complete them as well.
When you notice any changes, then immediately write them down next to the question concerned, in a different colour, or make an additional list for all the changes. When you don’t write it down right away, chances are that you’ll forget about the change.
Another way to evaluate results is to fill out the questionnaire once again after two to five years.

The things that I don’t like about myself and my life, the problems I have.

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The things that I would like to have improved about myself or my circumstances.

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Questions

1. How is your self-image? Explain, what do you feel then, what do you think then?
2. How is your life like? Describe your overall life at this very moment: personality, health, relationships, studies, ability, work, setbacks, happiness, money.
3. What happens on an average day, what is happening in your life at this moment? Relationships, activities, interests, hobbies, occurrences, sport, health, …?
4. What’s important in your life? Why, what do you feel then, what do you think then, how do you behave then?
5. How do you treat other people? Describe your behaviour towards other people in general and describe your behaviour towards different people or in different situations.
6. How do others treat you? Explain, who, in what way, why, when, how do you feel then, how do you react then, what are the consequences?
7. Describe the extent to which you receive love, from whom you receive love, from whom you don’t receive love, how you are treated by these people, and how you feel about that.
8. Describe the extent to which you are able to give love. Who do you love or for whom do you feel affection, who don’t you love or for whom don’t you feel affection?
9. What is your relationship with other people like parents, brothers and sisters, partner, children, friends, acquaintances, strangers, colleagues, superiors, subordinates, competitors, clients, suppliers, men, women, the opposite sex, other races, animals? What is your attitude /what are your feelings towards each of these people, what is their attitude/what are their feelings towards you, what are these relationships like, how do you behave when you’re with each of these people? Answer the questions for each type of relationship (parents, partner, …).
10. Do you care about what other people will think? In what situations, about what, with whom, what do you think or what do you feel then, how do you react, how long does it keep on lingering in your mind, what are the consequences?
11. Do you do or say things because of the opinion or the judgment of others or because you really want to do, have or say those things? What things, with whom, why, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
12. Can you deal with the daily things that happen on your own or do you have a need to tell everything to others, do you need a sounding-board? Explain, with regard to which people, situations or subjects in particular, how do you tell it, what do you feel then, do you find a sounding-board, how does the other person react?
13. Are you a nag, do you keep on repeating things that you have already told a dozen times? What do you nag about, with whom in particular, when in particular, what do you feel then?
14. Do you bother others (too) often with your troubles? What troubles, with whom, when, what do you feel then, how do you act then?
15. Are there subjects of conversation that return regularly or too often? What subjects, how often do they come up, when, with whom, what do you feel then?
16. Do you still think about things that happened in the past, do painful or unpleasant feelings or thoughts about persons or events from the past sometimes crop up? What, how often, what thoughts or feelings are accompanied with this?
17. Can you forgive and forget? Explain, who or what can’t you forgive and forget, why not, what do you feel then?
18. Do you condemn others, do you tend to have a negative opinion of something or someone, do you criticize others? Describe what you think or what you feel then, with whom, about what, when, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
19. Are you prejudiced towards certain people or situations? Which people, what situations, what prejudices, what do you feel or what do you think then, how do you behave then?
20. Do you (easily) have negative feelings for others? For whom, when, what feelings, how intensely, how do you behave then?
21. How do you behave in groups, do you feel at ease, do you want to dominate the conversation, are you reticent, do you feel afraid, do you like being in groups, do you avoid groups? Explain, what groups, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
22. How do you feel in the company of other people, do you always feel at ease, or not at all, do you like being in the company of other people or do you prefer being alone? Explain, which people, when, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
23. Is it easy for you to be alone or do you need much or continuous contact with other people? Explain, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
24. Can you decide easily, do you have doubts about the things you have to decide, do you reconsider your decisions, do you ask for other people’s opinions? Explain, how often, about what subjects in particular, what do you feel or think then?
25. Do you make choices easily, or is making choices difficult for you? Explain, with regard to what, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
26. Do you tend to postpone things, is it difficult for you to set about doing something? Explain, what in particular, why, how often, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
27. Are you lazy, passive, do you have difficulty doing the work that has to be done, don’t you get around to doing something? Explain, what in particular, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
28. Are there things, situations or people that you avoid, that you run away from, things that you postpone out of fear, shame, jealousy, resentment …? Explain, what things, who, why, what do you feel then, how do you do then?
29. Do you have enough willpower, do you have enough perseverance? Explain in different situations, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then?
30. Do you complete things, do you set about doing things and then leave it unfinished? Explain, what things in particular, what do you feel then, how long do you carry on?
31. Do you easily get tired of something? What things, how fast, what do you feel then, what do you do then, what are the consequences?
32. Are there things that you don’t like doing, that you are reluctant to do? What things, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
33. Do you tend to be late? Explain, in what situations, what do you feel then, what do you say then?
34. Do you keep your word, can others count on you? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
35. Do you have feelings of inferiority? About what, with whom, in what situations, how often, what do you feel then, how do you act then, what are the consequences?
36. Do you have complexes (an emotional problem in which you are unnecessarily anxious about something, or think too much about something), for example an inferiority complex, a complex about your weight, your intelligence, your looks? Which, with whom, in what situations, what do you feel then, how do you act then, what are the consequences?
37. How confident are you when interacting with people, about your capabilities and about the things you want to do? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
38. Are you insecure? When, with whom, how often, how intensely, what do you feel then, how do you behave, what are the consequences?
39. Do you have a fear of failure? In what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
40. Are there things that you’re afraid to say or do? Explain, what, when, why, what do you feel then?
41. Do you have the feeling that you have to prove yourself to other people or to yourself, or that you have to prove something? Explain, with whom, what do you have to prove, when, what do you feel then, how do behave then?
42. Do you have low frustration tolerance, do you take things too much to heart? Explain, what things, how intensely, how often, how long does it take before you have regained your balance, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
43. Do you tend to dramatize things, do you sometimes exaggerate things? Explain, about what, with whom, how do you react then, what do you feel then, how long does it take before you have found your balance again?
44. Do you worry easily, do you easily think that things are bad? Explain, what about, what do you feel then, how intensely, how often, how do you behave then?
45. Do you brood about things? What about, how often, what do you feel then, what thoughts do you have then?
46. Are you a pessimist? Explain, about what in particular, what do you feel or think then, what effect does this have on your life?
47. Do you think in advance that something will not go well? What in particular, how often, what do you feel or think then?
48. Do you feel down easily? Explain, when, about what, how intensely, what do you feel then, how fast are you back on your feet again?
49. Do you feel discouraged easily, do you tend to give up easily? Explain, in what situations, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
50. How do you react when you experience adversity? Explain for different situations, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
51. Do you panic easily? In what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
52. Are you irritable? When, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
53. Are you annoyed with others or at certain things? With whom, at what, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
54. Do you have feelings of guilt or regret? About what, when, how often, how intensely, what do you feel or think then?
55. Are you suspicious of others? Of whom, in what situations, how do you react then?
56. Do you resent or hate certain persons? Who, why, how intensely, what do you feel or think then, what are the consequences?
57. Are you sometimes aggressive? In what situation, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?

58  Are you dissatisfied or disappointed, about yourself, about others or situations? About whom or what, why, what do you feel then?

59. Are you sad? Explain, about what, when, what do you feel then, how do you act then?
60. Do you have one or more fears? Explain, which, when, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
61. Do you get angry easily, or is it difficult for you to get angry? Explain, in what situations, how often, how do you behave then?
62. Are you short-tempered? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
63. Do you have feelings of shame? For what, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
64. Are you impatient? Explain, when, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
65. How do you feel when you have to wait for something or someone? Explain for various situations, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
66. Are you sometimes desperate? When, what do you feel, think or do then?
67. Are there moments when you feel gloomy, somber, dejected or that you feel miserable or bad? Explain, when, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
68. Are you (sometimes) depressed, do you (sometimes) have feelings of depression, suicidal thoughts? Explain, when, how often, describe your feelings, your thoughts, your behaviour.
69. Do you have a chronic negative state of mind, for example, do you feel sadness, hatred, emptiness, … almost all the time? What do you feel then, how intensely, why?
70. Do you have mood swings? Explain, when, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
71. Is there something that you’re preoccupied with, is there something that often comes up in your mind? What, when, how often, what do you feel or think then?
72. Do you have worries? About what, how often, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
73. Are you (overly) enthusiastic or do you lack enthusiasm, are you (too) animated or do you lack passion? Explain, in what situations, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
74. Do you have stage fright? Explain, in what situations, what do you feel then, how intensely, how do you behave then?
75. Are you shy? Explain, in what situations, how often, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
76. Are you taciturn, do you not say much, do other people know things about you? Explain, about what subjects in particular, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
77. Is it difficult for you to express your feelings? Explain, in what situations, regarding what subjects, to whom in particular, what do you feel then?
78. Do you bottle things up? Explain, how do you feel then, what issues in particular?
79. Do you talk a lot, or too much, or not enough? Explain, about what, with whom, how do you behave then?
80. Are you too open, do you give yourself away too easily, do you afterwards regret having said certain things? Explain, with whom, about what subjects in particular, what do you tell then?
81. Do you do your best to please others, do you find it important for others to like you? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
82. Are you sometimes not being yourself, is your attitude sometimes forced or unnatural, artificial, do you want to make a good impression? Explain, when, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
83. Do you blush easily? In what situations, with whom, how often, how intensely, what do you feel then?
84. Are you jealous of others? Explain, about what, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
85. Are others jealous of you, do others compete with you? Explain, about what, with whom, how often, what do you feel then?
86. Do you compete with other people, do you compare yourself with others? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
87. Are you nervous, are there situations that make you nervous? Explain, how often, how intensely, what do you feel then?
88. Do you feel restless inside? Explain, when, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
89. Do you (sometimes) feel tense? Explain, when, with whom, how often, how intensely, how do you behave then?
90. Do you (sometimes) feel agitated (feeling rushed, hurried, hasty)? Explain, when, with whom, how often, how intensely, how do you behave then?
91. Do you have a certain way of behaving, a way of speaking, of walking, do you make certain gestures, anything else you do in a certain way? Explain, what, when, how intensely, with whom, why, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
92. Are you sensitive? In what circumstances, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
93. Are you emotional? In what circumstances, what do you feel then, how often, how do you react then?
94. Are you confused, chaotic? Explain, in what circumstances, what do you feel then, how often, how do you behave then?
95. Do you feel bitter about certain events or persons? About what, how intensely, what are the consequences?
96. Do you feel lonely, do you feel alone? Explain, when, what do you feel then, how often, how intensely?
97. Are you sometimes in a bad mood, do you have a morning mood? Explain, when, how often, what do you feel then, what do you say then, how do you behave then?
98. Do others criticize you? Who in particular and about what, what do they say then, how do they treat you then, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
99. Are you sensitive to criticism? To what criticism, from whom in particular, how often, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
100. Do others give you certain remarks (positive or negative)? What, who, when, what do you feel then, how do you react then, what are the consequences?
101. Do you feel attacked easily, do you sometimes take an innocent remark as criticism? About what subjects in particular, how often, what do you feel then?
102. Are you easily on the defensive, do you want to justify, explain, clarify things? In what situations or with what remarks, with whom, what do you feel then, what do you say then, how do you behave then?
103. Do you want to explain or justify things too much, even if your audience is not interested or does not ask for it? In what situations, about what, with whom, how do you behave then?
104. Do you have much stress in your life? Explain, as a result of what, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
105. Are you sensitive to stress, how do you react to stress? In what situations, how often, what do you feel then?
106. Do you tend to rush yourself? When, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
107. Can you say no, are you too indulgent, too lenient? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
108. Can you set boundaries, are you too tolerant? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
109. Do you let yourself be pushed into a corner by others, can you be manipulated, can you stand up for yourself, are you assertive enough? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
110. Are you a submissive person, do you let yourself be ordered or let others lead you? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then?
111. Do you tend to do too much for others? Explain, for whom, what in particular, what do you feel then?
112. Don’t you do enough for others? Explain, for whom, what, why, what do you feel then?
113. To what extent do you help others, to what extent do you abandon others? Explain, in what situations, who in particular?
114. Can you easily give your opinion or do you let something pass too often, do you have an opinion of your own or do you follow other people’s opinions? Explain, about what subjects, what do you feel then or think then?
115. How do you react when someone else has a different opinion? About what, with whom, how do you react then, what do you feel then?
116. Are you possessive of other people, or of material things/money? Explain, who, what, what do you feel then, how do you react then, what are the consequences?
117. Are you dominant, bossy, authoritarian? Explain, when, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
118. Do you want to have control over other people or situations? Explain, what people, what situations, why, when, how often, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then, what do you feel when you don’t have enough control, what are the consequences?
119. Are you tolerant enough? Explain, give examples, what do you feel then?
120. Do you manipulate other people? In what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
121. Are you realistic, do you live in the real world, or do you have delusions of grandeur, are you unrealistic? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
122. Do you sometimes have unreal/unrealistic sensations: images, voices, sounds, scents, certain interpretations of the behaviour of others? Explain, what sensations, what behaviour of others, how often, what do you feel or think then?
123. Are you constantly thinking, do your thoughts never stand still? Explain, when, how intensely, what thoughts, what do you feel then?
124. Do you sometimes have compulsive thoughts? Explain, which, how intensely, what do you feel then, what do you think then?
125. Do you have concentration problems, do you tend to be distracted? Explain, during which activities, how long can you stay focused, what do you feel or think then?
126. Does something that happened or a conversation sometimes keeps on spinning in your mind, repeating itself in your mind? Explain, in what situations/with what issues or people does this occur, how long does it last, how often does it happen, how intensely, what do you feel then?
127. Are you sloppy? Explain, what do you feel or think then, what are the consequences?
128. Are there things that you want to do too well, are you too much of a perfectionist? Explain, what things, when, with whom, what do you feel or think then?
129. Can you enjoy things, can you relax? Explain, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
130. Are you forgetful? Explain, about what in particular, how often?
131. Are you absent-minded? Explain, in what situations in particular, how often?
132. Do you stutter? How badly, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
133. Do you sometimes have trouble expressing yourself verbally, does it occur that you don’t find the right words? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, how do you feel then?
134. Do you have the tendency to exaggerate, with words or deeds? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then?
135. Do you hold on to your point of view no matter what, are you absolutely convinced you’re right? Explain, with whom, in what situations, about what issues, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
136. How do you handle new things, do you easily adapt to new situations? Explain, what situations, what do you feel then, how do you go about things?
137. Are you afraid of new things or do they cause you stress ? Explain, what things, what do you feel or think then?
138. How does it feel when you have to learn something new, how easily can you learn something new? Explain, what in particular, with whom, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
139. Do you adapt easily in case of an (unexpected) change, can you easily break away from your routine or your normal way of doing things and adapt quickly, or not? Explain, in what situations, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
140. Do you absolutely have to have your way, do you stubbornly hold onto what you yourself want? Explain, with whom, in what situations, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
141. Are you flexible enough, can you adapt, can you give in? Explain, in what situations, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
142. Are you stubborn, do you hold on to your own opinion or wish? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
143. Do you want to show off things or people? Who, what, why, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
144. Are you (too) impulsive? Explain, how often, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
145. Are you a naive person, do you easily believe what others say or do you take things with a pinch of salt, do you question things? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
146. Are you impressionable? Explain, in what situations, by whom, what are the consequences?
147. Do you sometimes lie, are you dishonest, do you do dishonest things? Explain, in what situations, with whom, why, how often, what do you do then, what do you feel then, what do you say then, what are the consequences?
148. Do you hide things from others, do you withhold things? Explain, what things, why, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, what do you say then?
149. Are you always sincere when you’re with other people or are you somewhat false or hypocritical, to a lesser or greater extent? With whom, when, how do you behave then, what do you think or feel then?
150. Are you (too) serious? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then?
151. Are you spontaneous, can you let yourself go, are there situations in which you feel inhibited? Explain, what situations, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
152. Do you tend to be hurried, do you do things fast, for example, eating fast, working fast, moving fast, talking fast? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
153. Are you meddlesome, do you want to poke your nose into things that actually don’t concern you? With whom, what subjects, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
154. Are you a ‘know it all’, a wiseacre, do you always know what things are like or how they should be, do you impose your opinion onto others? With whom, what subjects, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
155. Are you pushy, do you impose yourself or things on others? On whom, when, why, how do you behave then?
156. Do you think in black and white terms, do you have radical points of view? About what subjects, what do you think or say then, how do you behave then?
157. Do you have (strong) convictions or opinions about certain people, events, religions, God, society? What opinions do you have, how intensely, what do you feel then?
158. Do you perceive the surroundings or other people’s feelings or problems, or are you more absorbed by your own problems or thoughts? Explain, in what situations, with whom?
159. Are you very focused on yourself, do you live in your own small world? Explain, how intensely, what do you feel or think then?
160. Are you egocentric? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
161. When you talk to other people, is your attention completely focused on the other person or is your attention partly focused on yourself? Explain, with whom, how do you behave then, what do you feel or think then?
162. Do you have enough empathy, can you understand the world and the feelings of another person, can you sympathize with others? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel or think then?
163. Are you aware of the other person’s perspective in conversations, of the other person’s thoughts or feelings, do you also perceive their way of perceiving things, or do you only perceive your own viewpoint and your own thoughts and feelings? Explain, how do you behave then, what do you feel or think then?
164. Do you mainly see things from your own point of view, do you hold to your own viewpoint , do you also see the other person’s point of view? Explain, about what subjects in particular, with whom, how do you behave then, what do you feel and think then?
165. To what extent are you interested in other people? Explain, what do you do then, what do you feel or think then, what do you think then?
166. Are you sufficiently broad-minded, can you accept views or customs other than your own, or do you hold on to certain views or rules of how things have to be or have to happen? Explain, what views, what customs, what rules, what people, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then, what do you say then?
167. Do you have an attitude of ‘it’s the other person’s fault, the other person does it wrong’, are you never to blame, is it always or almost always the other person’s fault, or can you also admit your guilt? Explain, about what, with whom, in what situations, how often, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
168. What do you think about the way you look, what do you think about your body? Explain, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
169. Are you preoccupied with your appearance, do you attach great importance to your appearance or to other people’s appearance? Explain, how often, what do you feel or think then, how do you act then?
170. Is appearance or status very important to you, will you do, say, buy, not do, hide, change things because of status or social pressure or because of what others might think? Explain, what, why, with whom, in what situations, what do you feel then?
171. Do you have enough sense of responsibility, do you always take your responsibility or do you sometimes flee responsibility, do you sometimes lie, do you sometimes act like a coward? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
172. Are you (sometimes) hyperactive? How do you behave then, how often, what do you feel then, in what situations?
173. Do you have obsessions, compulsions, tics? Explain, what, describe in detail, how often, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, what are the consequences?
174. Do you bite your nails? To what extent, what do you feel then, when?
175. Are you addicted to something? To what, explain, how intensely, when, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
176. Do you smoke, do you use drugs, do you drink alcohol? Explain, to what extent, when, why, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
177. Describe your eating habits, what do you eat and drink, how much do you eat and drink, do you have problems with your weight? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
178. Are you independent, do you manage to do things independently or do you need help from others, do you need too much support from others, can you do things by yourself? Explain, what things can you do independently, what things do you need help with, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
179. How do you feel when you have to do something by yourself? Explain, what things, how do you feel then, how do you behave then?
180. Do you act like a victim (it happens with me again, it’s always I who did it, etc.), do you sometimes feel sorry for yourself? How do you behave then, how do you feel then, what do you say then, how do others react then?
181. Do you sometimes have a feeling of powerlessness, do you sometimes feel that there’s nothing you can do about it? Explain, what do you feel then, when, with whom?
182. Are you haughty, arrogant? Explain, in what situations, with whom, describe what you then feel or think, how do you behave then?
183. Do you look down on other people, do you feel contempt for other people, do you believe you’re better than others, do you believe other people are inferior? Explain, with whom, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
184. Do you sometimes try to take advantage of others or do others want to take advantage of you? Explain, who, in what situations, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
185. Do you gossip about others, do you think that others gossip about you? What gossip, (about) whom, how often, what do you feel then, what do you say then, in what way, why?
186. Are you too hard on yourself or on others? Explain, on whom, in what situations, how often, what do you feel then, what do you do then, what do you say then, how does the other person react?
187. Are you tactful enough, are you diplomatic, are you hurtful? Explain, in what situations, with whom, how often, what do you say then, in what way?
188. Do you have real friends or only acquaintances? Explain, what is your relationship with these people like?
189. Do you receive support from others or are you on your own? Explain, what do you get support for and for which things are you on your own?
190. Do you need a lot of attention? Explain, what do you feel then, from whom, why, when, how do you behave then?
191. Can you pay attention to others, can you listen to others? Explain, how do you behave then?
192. Do you get enough attention, do others listen to you? Explain, how do you feel then, with whom, when, how do you react then?
193. Are you respected, are you appreciated? Explain, by whom and by whom not, how do others behave then, what do you feel then, how do you react then?
194. Do you need affirmation, compliments? Explain, from whom, in what situations, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
195. Do you have the tendency to compliment yourself, ‘oh, I’m so good’, ‘look, what I’ve done’? How do you behave then, what do you say, with whom, when, why?
196. Do you compliment others enough, are you supportive of others, do you have attention for the achievements of others? Explain, how do you do that, with whom, with whom not?
197. Do you often have a quarrel? Explain, about what, when, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, what do you say then, how do you behave then, how does the other person behave then?
198. Do you shout, scream, insult? Explain, when, with whom, how often, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, how does the other person behave then?
199. Can you admit you’re wrong, can you patch up a quarrel, can you make the first move? Explain, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
200. Do you sulk? Explain, what do you feel then, how do you act then, how does the other person react?
201. What kind of people are you surrounded by, which people frequently cross your path? For example, poor people, people looking for support, egoistic people, rich people, creative people, jealous people, haughty people, very competent people, incompetent people, people who talk a lot, taciturn people, tyrannical people, loving people, liars, weak people, strong people, … How do you react to each type, what are these relationships like?
202. Are you social-minded, do you care about other people? Explain, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then?
203. Are you a racist? Explain, how do you behave then, what do you feel or think then?
204. Are you egoistic? Explain, how do you behave then, what do you feel or think then?
205. Are you opposed by others, do others thwart you? Explain, what do they thwart, how often, how intensely, why, what do you feel or think then, how do you react then, what are the consequences?
206. Do you thwart other people, do you oppose others? Explain, who, why, when, how often, what do you feel or think then, what do you say then, how do you act then?
207. Do you want to harm others, do you have bad intentions towards others, do you do things that are harmful to others? Explain, who, why, when, how often, what do you do then, what do you say then, what do you feel or think then?
208. Do you do things that are harmful to yourself, do you sabotage yourself, do you cut your own throat, do you spoil your own chances, do you hurt yourself? Explain, why, with whom, in what situations, how do you behave then, what do you feel then?
209. Are you bullied or do you sometimes bully others? Who bullies you or who do you bully, when, why, how often, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
210. How is the atmosphere at home, what is it like at home? Explain, who, what, when, why, how often, how intensely, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then, what do the others do then?
211. How is work going? Explain, when, why, who, how do you behave then, what do you feel or think then?
212. Are you a workaholic? Explain to what extent work plays a role in your life, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
213. What is your relationship with money, how do you handle money, what do you feel or what do you think when you think of money? Explain, why, how intensely?
214. How important is money in your life, to what extent are you preoccupied with money? Explain, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
215. Are you short of money or are you afraid of being short of money? Explain, what do you feel or think then?
216. Do you spend money (too) easily, are you (too) thrifty or stingy? Explain, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
217. Does money come easily or with great difficulty? Explain, what do you feel or think then?
218. Do you have much or little success in different areas of life? Explain, what are you successful in, what are you not successful in, why, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then?
219. Do the things that you do go smoothly, does everything go automatically or do you have many setbacks and do you always meet with obstacles? Explain, in what way do you experience adversity, how do things go, what do you feel or think then, how do you react then, what are the consequences?
220. Do you have setbacks? What, how do you react then, how often, how intensely?
221. Do you take the right decisions, the right actions, do you do the right things, or do you take the wrong decision, the wrong action, do you do the wrong things? Give examples, what do you feel or think then?
222. Do you continue to run into the same situations, do you seem to attract certain situations? What, how often, how intensely, what happens then, how do you react then?
223. Are you ambitious? Explain, why, do you succeed?
224. What do you want to achieve in life? Explain, why, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then?
225. Do you have a knack for organizing, do you work efficiently, do you do things the wrong way, do you lose time, do you do things in a roundabout way, …? Explain how you handle things, for different tasks individually.
226. Can you deal with many things at the same time, can you process much and accomplish much? Explain, how do things go, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
227. Do you have problems with time, for example, never having enough time, or not being able to take your time to do something, even if you have time? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
228. Do you make mistakes, in any kind of situation? What mistakes, in what situations, with whom, how often, what is the cause, how do you react?
229. Do you take the initiative, or do you leave everything to others, or do you let everything take its course? Explain, in what situations or with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
230. Do you sometimes want to do more things than you can handle, do you bite off more than you can chew? Explain, what things, why, what do you feel then, how do you behave then?
231. Do you want to take on too many things at once, do you want to do ten things at once? Explain, why, what do you feel then, how do you handle things then?
232. Do you feel that the activities that you do should be useful and that they’re a waste of time when they aren’t, do you have feelings of guilt when you relax instead of working? Explain, what do you feel then, what do you do then?
233. How do you react when you can’t find something? Explain, what do you feel or think then?
234. Do you have a craving for power? Explain, why, with whom, in what situations, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then, what are the consequences?
235. Do you have a wish to be important? Explain, why, with whom, when, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
236. Are you a leader or a follower? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel or think then, how do you behave then?
237. Do you have impact on other people, are you charismatic? Explain, in what situations, with whom, what do you feel then, how do you behave then, how do others react?
238. How would you describe your lifestyle and habits? Explain, give examples.
239. Are you preoccupied with death? Explain, how often, why, what do you feel or think then?
240. Do you have sexual problems? Which, how do you feel then, what is the effect of these problems on yourself and on your relationship, how do you behave then?
241. Do you have fantasies about certain things or persons? Which, when, describe what you imagine.
242. How is your health? Allergies, falling ill often, horny skin, diarrhea, constipation, hyperventilating, rashes, premenstrual symptoms, headache, being prone to colds, …? Describe each complaint in detail, how do you feel about it, what are the consequences?
243. Do you get tired and exhausted easily, do you lack energy? Explain, how do you feel then, what do you do then?
244. Do you sleep well? Explain, how do you feel about it, what do you do then, what are the consequences?
245. Do you snore? Explain, how intensely, how do others react?
246. How intelligent are you? Explain, how do you feel about your intelligence?
247. Do you quickly understand new things or does it take a while before you understand something? What things do you understand easily and what things are you slow to grasp?
248. Are there things for which you have no talent at all? What, what is it like, what do you feel or think then?
249. What are you good at? How do you feel about it?
250. Do you find out how to tackle new things on your own or do you need someone to show it to you? For example, a new software programme, or a new appliance. Explain, how do you go about it, how fast do you find it, don’t you find it at all, how do you feel about it?
251. How good are you at memorizing things? Explain, how do you feel about it?
252. What is your memory like, are you good at remembering things? What things can you remember well, and what things not?
253. Do you have spatial perception? Explain, what can you do well or not well, how do you feel about it?
254. Are you handy, are you good at practical things? Explain, what are you good at and what not, how do you feel about it?
255. Do you have technical/practical understanding? Explain, what are you good at and what not, how do you feel about it?
256. Are you creative? Explain, how do you feel about it?
257. How good are you at sports? Explain, which sport are you good at, which sport are you not good at, how do you do it then?
258. Are you slow? Explain, at what, when, describe what happens then, how do you feel then?
259. Can you easily orient yourself on the road? Explain, what do you do then, how do you feel then?
260. What things do you find enjoyable in life, what things do you find unpleasant? Explain for every item that you mention, what do you feel or think then, what do you do then?
261. What things do you find difficult in life, what things do you find to be a gift in life? Explain why for each subject.
262. What do you appreciate about yourself, what do you detest about yourself? Explain how you feel for each subject.
263. What are you successful in, what are you not successful in? How do you feel about it?
264. What opinion do other people have about you? Explain, how do you feel about it?